Green Flags

Man of God

Christ first, Chicago Cubs second.

Actually Single

No situationships. No confusion. No games.

Loyal & intentional

I show up, communicate, and mean what I say.

Emotionally healthy

(Voluntary) therapy by choice since 2023. I can talk, listen, and grow.

Takes care of himself

Gym 4x/week, yin yoga, and no processed foods.
Mind, body, spirit all matter.

Proud cat dad(!)

Camera roll is 99% my cats. The other 1%… others' cats.

Sam (left) with paid actors male friends.

Has seen the Barbie movies

And I know all the words to A Girl Like You from Princess and the Pauper

Disney adult (no shame)

Ain't never gonna catch me without no Lightning Lane.

Built a life I’m proud of

I am a follower of Jesus, a friend, an entrepreneur, and a leader in my community. I'm looking for someone who knows who she is - not someone perfect.

Looking for something real

My most fervent hope and desire is that I meet my best friend, I marry her, and I get to have my own family with her, whether that's just the two of us, or we are blessed with children.